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SKINNEDR

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Registered: 02-06-2014
Location: VIRGINIA

posted on 02-06-2014 at 10:22

Divorced and thinking of marrying again

Guys, I got divorced around 8 years ago, and lucky me my X-wife did not try to take it all from me. My pension is in-tacked and my 401K took a small hit and I stayed in the house.

I met a young lady a year ago and we been living with each other for almost 9 months. Initially when I met her she said she was not interested in getting married and recently she change her mind decide that is something she wants us to do.

This is the situation:
I'm 56 years of age, Engineer, working for a good firm for 35 years, make a decent salary. I have a small alimony that I'm paying my X-wife, thinking of retiring in five years, a good 401K, and a good pension awaiting me at retirement.

My girlfriend is 49 years of age, not currently working and living off a small pension from her X-husband that is not reliable and could dis-appear or die at any moment..
In other words she could loose her pension at anytime.

I'm concern, if I marry her, will she be entitled to half of my assets, pension, and 401K should she decide to divorce me in a few years?

I live in Virginia, however my pension started in Delaware.

If she divorce me within a few years will she entitled to my pension and also a split of my 401K?
How do I protect myself before getting married, so she will not decapitate me should she decide to divorce me in a few years?

I don't want to insult her by asking her to sign a Prenuptial agreement.

I'm in love, however I don't want to be foolish with my decisions..
Please help.....

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ken

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posted on 02-06-2014 at 13:16

You need to do the prenuptial

Lots of ways to protect yourself, but the prenuptial is the least expensive.
much easier doing before marriage than after. Also women have a tendency to agree before marriage that after. do it now. You just need to tell her that you need to do this. Protecting assets after marriage is not a good idea.

Assets can be put in trusts but they need to be done right.

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SKINNEDR

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posted on 02-11-2014 at 06:21

Planning to marry questions continue...

'Lots of ways to protect yourself, but the prenuptial is the least expensive.
much easier doing before marriage than after. Also women have a tendency to agree before marriage that after. do it now. You just need to tell her that you need to do this. Protecting assets after marriage is not a good idea.

Assets can be put in trusts but they need to be done right.

Can the prenup also protect your pension?
Dex..

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