My boyfriend and I think we're ready- know we're ready. I love him so much. But we've been together for 4 months and best friends for 2 years. To make matters worse we're both virgins. I want to but my other friends have recently broke up after being together for 5 months and after having sex. I just want things to last between us. He doesnt think sex will change anything but he loves me and says hes willing to wait for me to be ready. Does sex really change everything? And if I do have sex with him, am I right to be scared of loosing him? The only thing I'm sure is that I wnat to. Its the effects I'm scared of. Any advice for me? Please help. And Thankyou.
As a male, I could tell that we are really curious about having it.. onces it's done, there is nothing interesting left behind.. if there is no true love. But you said, you both love each other, then why don't you get married soon and have a great start. I strongly recommend that you give your virginity as a gift right after wedding!!!
Please, don't let it gooooo until you marry! There is no point having it before.. rather lots of problems..
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