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lynn

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posted on 05-31-2005 at 06:41

confuse and need to clear this doubt soonest

I need some expert advise pls. at my age 19, my first boyfriend and i had a first contact with my private parts. i felt sharp pain and immediately we stop. i found that my panty had 2 drop of very fresh blood size of a marker dot. But i don't feel any pain at my virginal at all. the sharp pain subside immediately. As i was innocent and did not have any knowledge of sex at all, all i knew was bleeding mean losing virginity. So when i met my husband then my boyfriend, i confess to him that i asn't a virgin anymore.
But on the first time with my husband, he had difficulty in penatrating and even unable to locate my virginal. I place his private on my virginal, he can't even feel that he was at the right place. But when he uses a little force he finally penatrate in but very little only, what i felt was i had a very sharp pain and having a tearing sensation. What my husband had was pressure around his penis head. I can sense that i had no such pain and feeling before. As he advance further, i wanted to reject him but i endure it. The pain is like needle pircing sensation and can feel the virginal opening. His penis was being block that he need to stop and push slowly to further alittle more. His foreskin was pulled and penis can feel tight, and unable to go in anymore as he is feeling painful like his foreskin peeling off. He then used the in and out motion slowly and the virginal was then open slowly and when the whole penis penetrate fully, he felt that there were 2 hump inside my virginal before he is fully in. He said that when he push in and out the wall was'nt tight anymore. When he withdraw, the wall in my virginal was feeling aching pain sensation. As for him his penis head was a little sore and red. When i urine it was very painful and i need to control the flow. My walking was very painful. The problem is i can't see any blood. I put on my black panties 10 min after he withdraw. The problem is i don't feel my previous boy friend inside me at all and had never encounter such exprience as mention above. I even meet him up and ask him, he told me he uses his finger to search before placing it in, but we stop because of someone came home. My ex boyfriend had long finger nail. I wanted to clarified to my husband but blame it on me that i did not tell him how and what i feel when we had our first time. Now he can't accept that i feel that i am a virgin to my husband. I am sorry to had say so much thing here but i plead someone can help me to solve. AM I STILL A VIRGIN TO MY HUSBAND ( feel tear when he penetrate in, feeling something inside for the first time, sore on my virginal, walking difficulty, pain last for almost a day any uncomfortable for a few days like still something inside sensation)?
Can my ex boyfriend finger nail causes the abrasion outside my virginal (i don't feel anything inside me at all). Pls advice.

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december26

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posted on 06-01-2005 at 07:24

still a virgin?

Let me assume from your name that you are Asian? Perhaps your first bf had a very small dick - although he penetrated your vagina, he only streched the hymen a bit - and withdraw before he fully pushed in.

So, you are then one of the rare cases of a 50% virgin.

I tried to deflower some time ago a girl. I could push in a bit and she lost some drops of blood - but I was not fully inside. She complained that her pain was soo strong that she asked to stop that night - and we didn't proceed. Next night she had to stay at home....and finally she didn't want to do it.
A year later she got married and her husband didn't complain at the wedding night. Why? Because she was not telling him anything about our encounter. Smart girl!:D:D

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