my boyfriend of almost a year just don't seem to want to make time for me anymore. I understand that our schedules are going to conflict because we both go to college (2 different schools) and I have 2 jobs and he has a job that he works a lot at. but, my thoughts are just that if he really wanted to spend time with me he would make the time, i make the time so why shouldn't he? am i right? it has been a month since the last time i have seen him. basically i want to know if it is time to move on??
all comments and advice are appreciated. thank you in advance!
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Registered: 10-03-2004 Location: Springfield Missouri
posted on 10-03-2004 at 17:49
Make sure he knows how you feel about it. Guys are not mind readers and they don't like it when you expect them to be. Ultimately though it's your move, which way you want to go...
Well if he can't make time for you then find someone who will. Talk to him about it and if he can"t give something up for at least 1 day to see you then he isnt worth your time
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