Well me and my girlfriend have been going out for 8 months now and we love each other very much, I fingered her the other day and she had an orgasm and she didnt make any sounds or anything, do some girls not make any noise while making love??? Is she still virgin? Thank You for you help.
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Registered: 07-04-2004 Location: Rhode Island, USA
posted on 09-20-2004 at 15:52
Some people don't make noise. There are many reason for this. Usually it all revolves around insecurity. When I had my first orgasm, I never made a peep. When I had sex all together I was usually quiet. People will eventaully express their pleasure for sex through noise when they can get over their insecurities about how their husband/wife or fiance will react to such an act. Then again some people never do get over it. Just the majority do.
And yes she is a virgin. A woman is no longer a virgin when a man enters inside of her.
One more thing Benilux. You probably heard similar lectures before but I will give you another. Seeing as how I am a guy, I know the desire for the wonders and joys of sex is what we have on our minds all the time. Most likly it is on yours a lot or you would not have visited this forum. You say your girl is a virgin and you love her very much. Then before she gives you her virginity, I suggest that you two be married or are engaged with 3 months till the wedding. Don't follow the path of that of a common man which includes screw and leave. If you love her, you will make the loss of her virginity a special occasion.
No, not all girls pant and moan like in the movies. If she orgasmed, though, you definitely are doing something right! I wouldn't think anything of her silence, though. Also, if you're worried about whether she's enjoying it or not, you can ask her to be more vocal so that you can be assured.
she, like many other girls or women may have not felt absoulutley comfortable with making all kinds off off and wierd noises, she may get a little more comfortable which may take a few shots (if those few shots are taken) for her to show or let you be aknowledged of any type of emotional or physical feelings!
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