Gabriella
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posted on 09-10-2004 at 09:25 |
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Need help!
Hi all.
I am 20 years old, and recently fell in love with the most wonderful guy.
after being with him for 5 months i decided to have sex with him ( i was a virgin)
however, when we have sex, he only lasts for like 5-10 mins and then he cums,.. and he gets overly upset because he wants to make me orgasm and cum.
i have never orgasmed and cum, is something wrong with me?
also, he is very upset that our sex life isn't very good.
what can i do to be really great at sex!
what would turn him on and make him want more?
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finelife
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posted on 09-13-2004 at 10:53 |
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There is nothing wrong with you. My wife had sex with a few others and myself but she never had an orgasm until after we married. Some females are slow to orgasm... probably most. Sometimes it's the guys fault but sometimes it's no ones fault. Five minutes is not long enough for most females to reach orgasm. He needs to learn how to last longer and control his frustration... maybe masturbate before sex will help. Foreplay is the most important part of great sex... never can be too much foreplay.
Sorry, but your guy sounds very immature. You shouldn't have to be asking what would turn him on or want more.... sounds like he has big problems!
If he really loves you this little sex problem will mean nothing.
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Gabriella
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posted on 09-13-2004 at 10:59 |
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Yeah he is a bit immature most of the times.. He is age 22, and he thinks he is Mr. Know it all.... hehe ...But i do love him and want this relationship to work.
:D:D
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LoraKora
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posted on 09-20-2004 at 09:47 |
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Then if thats the case,you have your work cut out for you. Love can do alot though. From what you've said,you will have to treat this a little differently. I understand there to be a big ego involved here. You will need to relize that its probably very fragile. He is thinking wow, I'm a stud and she should be pleased no matter what. You will have to guide him in a gentle way. Try not to be obvious in that. As I said before,you know what parts of your body turn you on the most. Even one side of your clit maybe more sensitive than the other. Guide him there,tell him when he preforms oral. Communication is the key and if done in a loving,thoughtful way you will soon "train" him and he will think he figured it out. That will be our little secret. Good luck.
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Gabriella
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posted on 09-20-2004 at 09:52 |
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thanks for the help, i really appreciate it
:)
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codybiltmore
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posted on 07-15-2020 at 02:11 |
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Most young men don't know how to please a woman
It took a woman who was able to communicate what she wanted in bed to teach me how to make love to a woman. I was young and thought I knew how to please a woman. She taught me how wrong I was.
Fucking is not love. It is sex. Making love is not fucking. It is pleasing a woman using sex in an intimate and mostly delicate way. For example, a woman's clitoris is very very sensitive and does not like needless movement. It wants gentle movements that touch the right spots. Gently tapping the top of a clitoris with your finger, very gently and softly, will drive a woman crazy. But moving your finger like a blender around it will just distract her from sensualness.
Don't be rough with a woman's breasts. Squeeze them gently but authoritively together while you kiss around the nipple.
Hold her close and let your hands become feather brushes along her skin, legs, ass, waist, arms, the middle of her back, all the while you make her suck your tongue.
Just a few things she taught me and I've never regretted the lesson.
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