MelbGirl
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posted on 09-06-2013 at 08:03 |
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how do I go about losing it?
Not sure which part of the forum I should be putting this in. I want to set up a f**k-buddy arrangement with someone...anyone really. Anybody know how to go about this? I'm shy so I don't feel confident to ask men to their faces (which would be horrified anyway at the thought...). So far I've propositioned one person in writing. Haven't heard from him in a few days. I'm so lonely and miserable. Part of it is because I don't believe that any man will ever be willing to do that with me. Seems like all the guys I like are only into serious monogamy, and teasing me sexually without actually having sex with me. I'm 24 and I just feel like it's too late, that I should have thrown my virginity away on someone in ninth grade, someone I didn't even know, as did every other woman I know, and then someone might be willing to f**k me now. But my last boyfriend told me straight that the reason he wouldn't was because I hadn't done it before with anyone else. It's like applying for a job - if I don't have experience in the field, no one is willing to give me any, and then I end up not having any experience at all. So any tips? I'm sick of being ignorant of what sex feels like; I feel like I'm missing out on something that literally everyone else is familiar with.
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northwildwoodnjman
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posted on 09-06-2013 at 09:52 |
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Now you know what guys go though who have no exsperience or very little experence. Women won't sleep with guys who are virgins after a certain age due to lack of experience. How does somebody get experence if nobody is willing to give them a chance? I been wondering the same think my whole life since i'm a 43 year old virgin. All we can do is hope we can find somebody. Since your old enough to get into a bar, you could just go to a bar and let a guy pick you up and loose your virginity that way.
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lovefort
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posted on 09-06-2013 at 16:56 |
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craigslist
You could try putting an ad on craigslist, I've heard that women looking for men usually get quite a lot of responses so you could probably find a decent guy there.
Where do you live, if you don't mind me asking?
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MelbGirl
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posted on 09-06-2013 at 22:53 |
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reply - northwildwoodnjman
'Now you know what guys go though who have no exsperience or very little experence. Women won't sleep with guys who are virgins after a certain age due to lack of experience. How does somebody get experence if nobody is willing to give them a chance? I been wondering the same think my whole life since i'm a 43 year old virgin. All we can do is hope we can find somebody. Since your old enough to get into a bar, you could just go to a bar and let a guy pick you up and loose your virginity that way. '
Aw *hugs*.
Yeah I have considered going to a bar. I'm not ruling out the possibility. I would prefer, though, that it be with someone I'm friends with. I guess I'm wondering if anyone has any suggestions about how to start that conversation with a friend. Doesn't seem like there's any way to prevent that conversation from being awkward, since there's always going to be the possibility of rejection, so I may as well go for it...somehow.
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MelbGirl
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posted on 09-06-2013 at 22:55 |
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reply - lovefort
'You could try putting an ad on craigslist, I've heard that women looking for men usually get quite a lot of responses so you could probably find a decent guy there.
Where do you live, if you don't mind me asking?'
Thanks for the suggestion. I'll consider it. I live in Melbourne, Australia.
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northwildwoodnjman
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posted on 09-07-2013 at 05:52 |
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Yea I would prefer doing it with a friend for the 1st time also, Just don't have any single female friends. Try asking a male friend you may have to come over to keep you company. Tell him your lonely and offer to make him dinner or something along that nature. While he is there just start flirting with him. I'm sure he will get the hint.
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MelbGirl
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posted on 09-07-2013 at 18:43 |
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reply
:)
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SHAUN
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posted on 10-13-2013 at 17:47 |
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Reply.
Well did you find anybody yet? Being in Melbourne I'm sure you could always find an escort. If you're lucky one may even give you a discount lol.
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northwildwoodnjman
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posted on 01-21-2014 at 17:16 |
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Any luck withy finding somebody MelbGirl?
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