Dad caught me masturbating when I was 16 years old. I was in my bed with my legs bowed and naked with my hand inbetween my legs. He came in (without knocking) flipped on the light and was going to scold me for something I did earlier. My parents and sisters usually never came in without knocking, I strickly enforced it :)
It still stings to this day, I don't think he's even got over it. We have a hard time giving hugs to each other, and being affectionate at all. Someday, I hope he'll get over it. When I give him a hug he pushes his body backwards and does the back tap.
I was caught masturbating for the 1st time (and the last I hope) yesterday by my mum and I just want to know what to say about it. And if any one else has been caught? if so who by? where? how old where u? what did u say? what did the other person say?.
I got caught masterbating TODAY by a friend of mine who walked into my room unannounced. I thought I was in the house alone, and she and her mom came over to pick me up for a tennis game. She walked in and I had my hand down my pants. She has a key to the house and I knew she was coming over but usually they just sit outside and blow their horn to let me know they're here. Jeesh, talking about being embarrassed.
I've got you all beat (ahem...). My son was thirteen when I walked in to his room unannounced and busted him handily (ahemx2...). I wasn't paying attention, forgetting to knock. Wish I had. The look on his face has never left my eyes, a look between sudden horror right before you wake up from a dream of standing naked in the classroom where your favorite girl is sitting up front. I should have just smiled and walked out saying something like, "nobody in the locker room can make fun of that king snake, son." I don't know how many times I've mentally kicked myself for showing my own embarrassment. I inadvertantly added my own insecurities on his, when I could have championed something life-changingly positive - and making his and my relationship closer for when he got older. As it was, we never dared mention it between us, and I wish we someday might cross that line with grown-men laughter. I don't know why it is a social moment of trauma to get caught with your hand wrapped firmly around your manhood. I let him down. I regret.
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