Sex always seems the same, because my husband and I get into the same old positions over and over: him on top, me on top, and from behind. What different positions can we do to get more excitement?
All you have to do is get creative! Take the basics, and just move around a little, experimenting with wherever your body happens to end up. Put an arm or leg up, or down, or over. Try standing or sitting up during sex. Try doing it in a rocking chair instead of in bed, or even just on the sofa or on the floor. If you need some instruction about new positions, sex books can help.
Try doing it in another room. Try the kitchen counter or dining room table. Try the couch or on the living room floor. Try it in your car, or in a tent on an air mattress in your backyard. Try it in the shower or in front of a window.
Also try acting out some fantasies. First, tell each other about your fantasies (nurse, cowboy, at work, in public, or whatever they may be). Second get some fun things to act them out. Get a cowboy hat or nurse outfit. Then act them out. A lot of times the fantasy itself will call for different positions. A doctor fantasy might have you on an examination table. A cowboy/cowgirl fantasy might have you standing up.
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