I know this may sound totally stupid, but how far can you go with a guy without losing your virginity? I mean, I asked plenty of people that before, and they all gave me different answers. I was just wondering
Posts: 62
Registered: 07-04-2004 Location: Rhode Island, USA
posted on 07-30-2004 at 06:06
Some say if you have intercourse analy or with the vagina, you lose your virginity. I am not into this anal deal too much and I still look at what history says. You lose your virginity if you have intercourse (via the virgina).
so you can do every thing else as long as you don't actually have intercourse and still be a virgin. I kinda want to ,but i don't think I'll feel like a virgin if I do the other stuff.
Posts: 62
Registered: 07-04-2004 Location: Rhode Island, USA
posted on 08-27-2004 at 21:58
Hmmm
That is then a personal issue. If you feel you won't be then don't do anything. It is all personal preferance when it comes to forplay. However, if you do want to go by the books then don't have intercourse.
Posts: 61
Registered: 10-03-2004 Location: Springfield Missouri
posted on 10-17-2004 at 03:06
WOW I can't believe I didn't answer this sooner,
Let me sayd first that oral sex and anal sex are definetely, still sex! If you have sex then you are no longer a virgin.
If you believe otherwise then you are niave enough to believe that all lesbians and gay guys are virgins.
However "How far ist to far?" Is a question a lot of single people have- If you want to know the medical line you can never cross is you don't want a sexually transmitted disease here it is-
NO GENITAL CONTACT!............ NONE!.......... DISEASES LIKE Human Papilloma Virus (HPV or street name genital warts) ONLY REQUIRE SKIN CONTACT ANYWHERE IN THE GENITAL AREA! THIS Disease killed more women from cervical cancer in 1997 than AIDS! THERE IS NOT A CONDOM IN THE WORLD THAT WILL STOP THIS VIRUS! Not only that but....the most cancerous strains of this virus produce no warts!!!! (there are over 30 strains of this STD) So just because you don't see warts doesn't mean you don't have it! The standard STD testing on a man won't even reveil if he has this virus!!!
This virus is the most contagious and the most common STD out there, "At least 50 percent of sexually active men and women acquire genital HPV infection at some point in their lives. By age 50, at least 80 percent of women will have acquired genital HPV infection." I pulled that right off this std website so if you don't believe me check it out! http://www.cdc.gov/std/HPV/STDFact-HPV.htm
Anyway here is a question to ask yourself on how far you should go, ask yourself- How would you want someone else to treat your future wife? How far do you want the guy that's dating your future wife to go with her? Answer this question honestly, and follow your own advice.
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