My boyfriend and I have been together for several years. He is my one and only boyfriend and sex partner. Well, a couple years ago I have come to literally HATE having sex. The thought of a penis makes me sick. I have masturbated since I was about 7 years old and I just prefer to do that. I have never came with him at all-just from masturbating. We tried a vobtaer and that didn't even arouse me.. I am not a lesbian and I still care for him. When i think about us not being together I feel sick. He is a great guy, I am attracted to him and everything..I just really hate having sex. It hurts sometimes and I went to the doctor about it and she recommended a therapist! Maybe that's what I need?
Well the bottom line is my boyfriend is really getting upset about it. It's to the point where I'll do it just so he doesn't get mad at me, but I fake orgasm just so he'll cum faster. What do you suggest to bring my libido back???
Well, first of all did anything happen to you as a young child that could have scarred you? Also, you dont have to be lesbian to have a sexual experience with another woman. I would either recommend leaving your BF because its probably not going to get any better and maybe a new man would make it change. Otherwise I would recommend you having some sort of experimentation with woman to see if thats the way you are going. Hope this helps.
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