We have been doing BDSM since we met over 6 years ago. But have not met any other couple in which we have tried. But again we are into the more softer BDSM no major pain etc. For those who want to know here is a site that will explain what BDSM is and the differences in it.
We have dabbled for years and have collected a few items here and there to help with that. J enjoys being tied up and teased, but is not into spanking or pain (except that she does like some nipple play.) I've been learning a bit about Japanese rope bondage and try to practice whenever I can.
She likes being submissive, as the feeling of not being in control helps her relax and enjoy the sensations. I enjoy teasing her and delaying her orgasm for a while, which leads her to some very intense ones.
I've read quite a bit on the subject, both fiction and non-fiction, so I feel pretty well versed in BDSM. I enjoy topping, but feel that I'm really more of a switch and would like to try being a sub sometime myself. J is not into that aspect of it and I've never found a woman who has wanted to top me, but I guess there is always tomorrow.
It's not something we find necessary in swinging, as we enjoy a variety of sexual activities, but it has been fun exploring that world.
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