I've read that the first time you have anal sex it hurts a lot . Is this true or is it exaggeration? I love the idea but i'm afraid that it will hurt a lot
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Registered: 07-04-2004 Location: Rhode Island, USA
posted on 07-12-2004 at 13:12
I think so
I believe it may hurt. Probabaly worse off than having sex. The hole is use to things coming out not in. If you ever do decide to have anal, make sure your bowels are clean. Don't want something messy to accidently happen. :P
If done properly anal sex should be very pleasurable for both partners, with only minimal discomfort the receptive partner at first quickly turning to pleasure as soon as the muscles of the anus and rectum relax. Many people that try anal sex with their partners do not know or use the proper technique which can result in causing some discomfort or pain to their partners. This should not be the case if you have a knowledgeable, considerate and experienced partner. Some times it takes a few time to learn to adjust to the new sensations just as it does when a women has vaginal intercourse the very first time.
As with first vaginal intercourse, first anal intercourse is more comfortable with finger play before the penis is inserted. Also it is important to use a lubricant for anal sex.
It is also important to stop if anything hurts and communicate with your partner about how you feel — sex play that is painful or uncomfortable should not continue.
Hope this information helps! :)
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