im 21 and just had sex for the first time and i knew i would bleed but it was excessive the first three times the pain is another story i passed out the first two times my bf was so scared i feel bad weve done it five times and still i cry each time why is this?
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Registered: 07-20-2020 Location: Coarsegold, CA USA
posted on 09-15-2020 at 19:46
Losing your virginity is a painful experience
I thought it would be better for a woman to respond to your experience of pain when losing your virginity. I called a woman friend of mine from our church before responding here. Even if your post is pretty old, the information I will provide should help anyone else suffering from the same kind of experience.
My woman friend told me that losing her virginity was excruciating. I guess pain is fairly common, but I doubt, as you stated, that 'passing out' is normal. It took a while before the pain left the sexual experience for my friend. She worried she would always have pain. It was not a good experience for her.
She is happilly married now. No more pain. Obviously, she has three children.
I am not trying to be creepy. I don't usually respond to female issues like this, but your post touched my heart. I thought I could contribute a sort of hope for those suffering likewise. Just know that the information I presented came from a woman.
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