Please, please help me, I have been with my boyfriend just under two and half years, and our sex life is very good, but I have never had an orgasm by his hand. He is very reluctant to touch me down below, we have talked about it and he says he can’t explain why he feels this way.
I have even tried touching myself during foreplay, and that lead to a lot of tears as he thought I didn’t think he was good enough for me!
Please help as I know an orgasm is not the be all and end all, but just once I would like one.
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Registered: 07-04-2004 Location: Rhode Island, USA
posted on 07-05-2004 at 20:24
Hmmmm
I ain't no sex instructor and I feel funny about discussing this in a forum. Best advice is to guide him to where it is pleasurable for you and um....oh what am I doing. Go to a book store and get a karma sutra book or sex guide or something on those grounds. Get the info you need and keep the book or return it.
If you are orgasmic by your own hand, then you should know what it takes to get you off, and if he cares about your pleasure, then he will gladly heed your gentle suggestions. Ask him to perform oral sex on you, then tell him what feels best. The more responsive you are, the more thrill he will get out of pleasing you, so by all means let him know if he is doing something right. And if it's about intercourse, slow him down so that you receive ample foreplay.
Miranda I have some bad news and some more bad news for you.
First. Why are you letting that pervert touch you down their before he says ( Do) to you babygirl!
It sounds like your boyfriend is either very inexperienced or he's very gay!
A real man would begg you to let him touch you down there and begg you to do even more down there!
My mouth waters just thinking about the pleasure he should be giving you (Down There).
My suggestion is that you go to the library or the book store and gets some books on how to sexually satisfying your (WIFE) for him and help guide him through what he sees as a maze of sexual frustration.
If that doesn't work dump that idiot and give me a call I'll touch ya down there and anywhere else you want to be touch sweet heart!
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