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Berta

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posted on 05-24-2004 at 09:35

your opinion

hi all
ok so my sister was in an affair witha guy for 10 years , they had sex and all...but in the end he dint marry her...and now her marriage has been arranged with some other guy my parents chose for her...shez very happy...but shez reallly worried because in the society we live , virginity is very important ...and by that i reallly mean IMPORTANT....nd she knows when she'll have sex with this guy ...she wont bleed...and he might get to know...she dint have sex from the last one and a half year....but will some1 tell me if the guy reallyy gets to know ...nd wat is the time period when the vagina comez bak to its original position?

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halfmoon

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posted on 05-24-2004 at 09:37

The vagina never comes back to its "Original Position."

And just to let you know, a lot of girls don't bleed their first time, anyways. Most of my friends didn't.

Virginity is considered a big deal in some cultures, but her future husband, may not know that she is no longer a Virgin.

Good luck hun, and I hope all turns out well for your sister!

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auntpolly

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posted on 05-24-2004 at 09:39

I'm not recommending starting a marriage on a lie, but there is hymen reconstructive surgery, which basically makes you a virgin again. Supposedly a guy would not be able to tell that you've had sex before him.

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wannabe

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posted on 07-06-2004 at 05:50

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quote:
Originally posted by auntpolly
I'm not recommending starting a marriage on a lie, but there is hymen reconstructive surgery, which basically makes you a virgin again. Supposedly a guy would not be able to tell that you've had sex before him.

For what I was alowed to understand by the laws issued by the REAL Creator through His Great name, is that
"Marriage" has been a lie for quite a long time already. What I mean by that is the term "marriage" has replaced "joining", that is the sex act itself, the male organ penetrating through the "seal" or signet of the hymenaus resulting in the shedding of the virgins blood.

To suggest a female should seek hymen replacement surgery is tampering with the laws of the Almighty issued to a human being (that is, hymen being) would be a very very foolish thing to do especially if you do not understand the consequences that could take place but not by "human" hands.

Do not fool yourself by thinking a female can "trick/fool" a male into thinking she is a virgin twice.

One birth,

one marriage (until death do us part),

and one death.

People celebrate (or think) they have multiple births, marriages, and some cult/ures, even multiple deaths.

The scrolls (Bible) speak of
"shedding innocent blood" but this statement is not all of what the majority of the people think it means.

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AdviceMan

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posted on 08-30-2004 at 03:04

Well Berta your sister has very little to worry about.

If she has only been with that one man before the one she is going to marry she will still be very tight on her wedding night.

Even though a woman has had her hymen punctured and she no longer has that thin layer of skin to protect it any more the vagina itself will close and tighten up as soon as the first man removed his penis.

Some women never bleed there first time due to the fact that they may have ruptured their hymen playing sports or hitting the gorund to hard on their butts.

As long as she has not had sex with multiple men like a prostitute does with hundreds of men your sisters vagina will close tight again and her hubby will not know the difference.

Tell your sis if she is that worried to talk to her hubby and confess that she is not a virgin girl and that he is the second person chances are he won't give it a second thought and if he does then he is not the man for your sis.

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