realbob
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posted on 05-17-2004 at 11:05 |
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losing virginity
my mate is 13 and she says, and i beleive her that she has lost her virginity i think that she is way to young? have you lost yours and what age?
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kuks342
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posted on 05-17-2004 at 11:10 |
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i am a 14 (almost 15) year old virgin . and in my opinion yes she is too young (but who am i to say what is and is not too young?). but if she was ready then she was ready. for me i'd rather wait i guess its all up to the person. :););)
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fraudpin
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posted on 05-18-2004 at 07:15 |
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Re: losing virginity
I was 17 and looking back I was too young cos I didn't know what I was getting into. As people have said before, it's different for everyone. I didn't realise how much it meant to me to be in love with the person I am with until I got around to partner #3! I think that's pretty appalling. It's too late for regrets though and since I plan on keeping this one I think it's ok.
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wow15
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posted on 05-18-2004 at 07:19 |
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too young for sex
19 and damn proud to say I'm still a virgin ^__^ I think she's way too young. Maybe she thought she was "ready". Being sexually active at such a young age is really stupid. Young people just don't take into account all the risks that go along with sex. :P
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kinky_mouse
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posted on 05-24-2004 at 08:30 |
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It's a very personal thing, and it's different for everyone. I was 17 when I lost mine, and I did it for all the wrong reasons. I wish I had waited a little longer. I think your friend is too young, but it is her choice...she should make her own mistakes.
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AdviceMan
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posted on 08-30-2004 at 02:54 |
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First Bob a person cannot lose their virginity.
Its not like it's your car keys or your wallet.
A person either gives their virginity away to another person or in many cases a young girls is raped and her virginity is taken away from her without her consent.
Second a girl only 13 years old is to young to be engaged in sexual activity, chances are she didnot give her virginity away.
Should may have been (date raped), That is when a girl is dating a guy and he invites her over to his house, once she gets comfortable he pounces on her, she fights him but he is to strong and he snatches off her panties and inter her and ejaculates inside of her.
Most girls who have this done to them their first time believe they are responsible and don't report it to the police because they were at his house alone.
They are not aware that once they said no and he continued and forced her into sexual intercourse it was rape.
13 year old is waaaaaay! to young to be having sex!
I was 6 years old when a 16 year old girl next door took my virginity.
The pleasurable things she did to me felt so good As a boy I was so happy I craved more and I kept going back for more until my mother found out what was going on and she moved us to another neighborhood.
I still have craving for that girl years later.
So tell that little girl to keep her dress down and if a boy try's anything with her to kick him in the balls and run like hell!
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Old_Fashioned
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posted on 09-01-2004 at 16:50 |
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Hmmm
Interesting story Advice! I am assuming you were out of your diapers then.:P
As for RealBob, she could be still a virgin but just trying not seem like one to follow the crowd. If she isn't then yes she is way to young. Try coaxing her into believing that it aint the way to go about giving yourself away that young and for her to preferably wait till marriage.
If what Advice said was true about her being raped then that makes things tricky. You better love her or have the compassion to deal with her. People who have been raped, molested, date raped, or any type of sexual assault can take years to recover. Sometimes they never do. They need a lot of TLC. If she was raped, try to figure out the time frame. If she is within the time limit of being able to prosecute, try to get her to go forth with the charges. No man should get away with rape. Its is a haneous crime that I have always deemed as unforgivable. Capital punishment is good for these offenders, even for first time affenders. The again, I think death row is maybe too good for them. A life time of torture and even having them get castrated seems like they get off easy. Ok I got off track.
If rape was involved RealBob, think with your heart bigtime. Also do whatever you can to get justice for whatever happened to her. If it wasn't involved, lead her down the road of innocense and help her to stop following the crowd.
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