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you have a family and want to do what is best for them. It seems like going to a counselor might give you both some perspective on what is happening in your relationship and things you can do to try and improve it. Having those thoughts about cheating are not going to end your marriage, unless you act on them. It's natural for men to think about other women, but the difference is when you act upon those thoughts, then lie to your wife about what you've done. I think a counselor would be able to make things seem more clear, as far as your problems and where they come from, and he/she will have some proven advice for ways to avoid fighting, be honest, and deal with marital problems while your children are around. Either way, I would do what you can to keep the relationship going - just because you don't feel that spark right now doesn't mean you guys can't get it back. Plus, you want to do what's best for your kids.