sweetie123
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posted on 01-16-2011 at 18:07 |
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I afriad to have a sex!
First of all i am 18 years old and i am a girl, im in relationship for 4 years. Me and my boyfriends tried to have a sex, everything was ok, at first we were kissing....... then when he touched my vagina by his penis (it was just a touch) i felt a big pain, he put his penis a little bit more inside my vagina and the pain was bigger... i asked him to stop. I feel really sad and i feel too weak. I think that ill never decide to have a sex since i think of the pain, and there is a pain I need some help, ty.
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SwanSword
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posted on 03-10-2011 at 19:28 |
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The Virgin
God placed a seal over the virgin's blood sacrifice of innocence. This seal is called a hymen. God gave the male a share in the pleasure of creation of God The Father, and to the woman he gave a share in the pain of atonement of God The Son.
When the virgin is mated naturally, that is, when conception results, she conceives without stain, like the Blessed Virgin. The female does not naturally experience sensual pleasure. She must be mated against nature--when conception does not occur--to experience pleasure forbidden to the female.
Female sensual pleasure is original sin--the reason people die. If any virgin conceives within the bonds of sacramental matrimony and also of her blood sacrifice of innocence, her child will be blessed, of her holy and chaste womb.
But if the woman fornicates, and then conceives, her child will be the accursed progeny of the unchaste mother, wiped from the face of history in two generations, that the seed of pagan savages by eliminated from the gene pool.
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fahartle
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posted on 05-24-2011 at 18:39 |
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Common condtion - here's some real help
Sweetie123, please don't listen to a single thing the previous poster said. Swansword is plainly a religious freak and you're never going to get the truth from anyone that cares more about their narrow beliefs than the physiological/sexual health and well-being of another human being.
It is possible that you could have an overly thick or closed hymen, and you can compare your own vagina to images online in a mirror to see. If it is a hymenal issue, an OB-GYN doctor can take care of the issue quickly and painlessly.
However, it is exceedingly likely that you have a, sadly rather common, condition called vaginismus - My girlfriend had this same condition when we were in high school and we were never able to consummate our relationship either. It is someone we both deeply regret, as our first sexual experiences were both awful and with individuals that we didn't care about anywhere near as much as we did for each other.
Vaginismus results from an involuntary contraction of the PC muscle in the vagina, and this can cause intense cramping somewhat like a calf or hamstring cramp. The first thing that you should try on your own is to try and "train" your vagina to avoid spasming uncontrollably. Digital masturbation is the best method to begin with (touching yourself with your fingers). Draw a hot bath and imagine you are stroking a pet or something along those lines. Then slowly work up to inserting a finger.
There are also muscle exercises you can do to build up that muscle and, in the process, gain some control over it. When you urinate, try to stop the stream in the middle (so that you still have to go). That pinching effort is flexing the PC muscle. If you squeeze in that manner 20 times a few times a day, you will strengthen the muscle which, ironically, makes it LESS likely to spasm in the way that is causing so much pain.
Once you get to the point that you can insert a finger or two on your own without cramping, then you can inch into having sex with your boyfriend successfully. If these at-home methods don't work then, PLEASE go see a doctor and describe the problem. An gynecologist (OB-GYN) is going to see dozens of these cases every year and will not embarrass you. It is absolutely worth getting professional medical treatment and it WILL help you. Good luck!
*Again, don't listen to religious freaks, please.
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anonymousperson
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posted on 07-28-2011 at 19:07 |
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your boyfriend
that doesnt sound right, you told him tro stop when it was hearting and he didn't, it sounds like he just raped you. you should press charges.
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anonymousperson
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posted on 07-28-2011 at 19:10 |
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your boyfriend
that doesnt sound right, you told him tro stop when it was hearting so did he stop? if not you should press charges and leave him
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