sangamnitesh
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posted on 12-29-2010 at 19:06 |
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22 yr Virgin - Can't control my thoughts
Hi 2 all,
Do help me with my kind of situation. I am 22 now and still standing a virgin. From my childhood I used to fear from girls, donno why.
My parents as every other parent and society learned me one thing i.e.., its bad to roam around girls until age of 18. And hence i followed it and until 18 i never had any girl friends or lovers. I think tht was my mistake, not approaching girls till 18, which made me fear more infront of them. After my 18 yrs of age, I met two girls, thy were good to me whn thy met and after sometime i donno wht happened to them, might be thy got bored of me - thy stopped talkin to me or replyin to my mails.
Now I started to think that all girls in the world are assholes, girls are like toys to be used and thrown. Never love any girl. A girl is born in this world only to give birth and a girl/women can only(remember i said ONLY) love his/her own child. A girl marries a man only to have a baby but not out of love or affection to him. These all types of thoughts are arising in my mind which are making me hate girls more and more. Personally I like white girls a lot with fare complex. But I am brown and from what I have seen in the society most/all of the white girls only have sex/love white boys only. As a virgin, I wish that i would get a virgin wife but according to my taste on girls, none of the white women who look beautiful are virgin. So the down line is I can never get a girl. So why am I still good to this world. Why can't I got o a prostitute house and fuck someone daily. I don't want to be bad but my thoughts finally conclude that I should be bad as logically no girl exist for me of my taste.
Please help me with my dirty thoughts. I am alive but my heart is dyeing. :\
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friend4354
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posted on 02-08-2011 at 07:22 |
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Great post, Sang.
All of your emotions and feelings are normal. The problem is that you are surrounded by very loose women and you are holding on to your high principles. They do not.
I'm sure you notice all the family problems and marital infidelity going on around you. A main reason for this is because most people know what it is like to have sex with someone other than their spouse. Eventually many get bored, angry, etc. with their spouse's lovemaking.
The easy way out is to just have sex. Then you can be like everyone else, with low standards for the things that matter most.
On the other hand, do realise you are still very young and have a long life ahead of you to find the right woman. Finding your needle in the haystack is a lot easier these days with all the interconnection and processing power at your disposal :-).
Meanwhile, try to hold on. Keeping yourself busy is essential. You can do sports, visit friends, join associations, read books - any of this will make you very attractive to your future wife, no matter what her colour. On the physical side, self gratification might be some outlet.
I hope I have helped.
Friend
'Hi 2 all,
Do help me with my kind of situation. I am 22 now and still standing a virgin. From my childhood I used to fear from girls, donno why.
My parents as every other parent and society learned me one thing i.e.., its bad to roam around girls until age of 18. And hence i followed it and until 18 i never had any girl friends or lovers. I think tht was my mistake, not approaching girls till 18, which made me fear more infront of them. After my 18 yrs of age, I met two girls, thy were good to me whn thy met and after sometime i donno wht happened to them, might be thy got bored of me - thy stopped talkin to me or replyin to my mails.
Now I started to think that all girls in the world are assholes, girls are like toys to be used and thrown. Never love any girl. A girl is born in this world only to give birth and a girl/women can only(remember i said ONLY) love his/her own child. A girl marries a man only to have a baby but not out of love or affection to him. These all types of thoughts are arising in my mind which are making me hate girls more and more. Personally I like white girls a lot with fare complex. But I am brown and from what I have seen in the society most/all of the white girls only have sex/love white boys only. As a virgin, I wish that i would get a virgin wife but according to my taste on girls, none of the white women who look beautiful are virgin. So the down line is I can never get a girl. So why am I still good to this world. Why can't I got o a prostitute house and fuck someone daily. I don't want to be bad but my thoughts finally conclude that I should be bad as logically no girl exist for me of my taste.
Please help me with my dirty thoughts. I am alive but my heart is dyeing. :\' 
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