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new2swinging

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posted on 01-12-2010 at 14:51

Newbie confused and needs advice

My fiance has always fantasized about swinging and orgies and talks about it all the time. I'm a little less open to the lifestyle, maybe due to my own sexual inexperience with anyone but him.
Over the past few years however, he's worn down my barrier on the topic and we recently visited a club. We had set out strict "rules" before we went (essentially, enjoy the show, but we only have sex with eachother) and had talked out pretty much any situation that could arise. We visited the onsite playroom of the club and had hot sex all over the place and even were among the last to leave. I really had a good time and was the one that recommended that we go again. Although I still enjoyed the second time we went, I now feel pressured to take things further if we were to return. Ever since we've gone it seems to be a daily conversation that leaves me frustrated and uncomfortable. I'm all about having sex with him with other people around, but feel that sex with others is a step I'm not yet ready to take. To top things off, he's already had an affair since we've been together and I'm trying to keep an open mind about swinging to avoid future infidelity.
I'm not quite sure what to do, I love my fiance dearly but he isn't listening to my perspective.
Anyone have any advice?

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bretright

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posted on 01-19-2011 at 08:53

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Im not sure if my advice would help but I will try. First of all I would not trust him if he has already cheated. The chances of it happening again are pretty good. That being said, I would try to enjoy the experience but dont let him kiss or have intercourse with the others. I recently have been offered a threesome with my wifes best friend. She offered but I havent asked my wife yet. I am already married but I really want to. I am also confused. if you want to email me directly, send to bret.right@yahoo.com.

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friely49

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posted on 08-18-2020 at 12:26

Dump your boyfriend - He's a cheat

Your fiance is a creep. He is trying to bring you down to his low low level of thinking. He cheats, and he tries to debase you. Why would you let anyone do that to you?

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