lagore
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posted on 12-18-2009 at 12:08 |
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False Virgins
To be honest, I don't think any of you understand what virginity really means. You all think it's something physical, like... your body or your vagina somehow change after you've had intercourse. Well, I'm sorry to break it to you, but that's not the case.
Why do we even have a forum devoted to the hymen? It's not important people! What the fuck does thee hymen matter? It only matters if the guy wants you to hurt, in which case he has some pretty severe problems.
Sucking off some guy, or jacking him off, letting him cum on you, being fingered. Doing any of those means you're NOT a virgin.
Okay? Any willing sexual activity involving another person means you're not a virgin. How fucking stupid can people be?
It's mental, you know? It's about being your partner's ONE and ONLY. Sharing a special bond, and not knowing what some other guy's cock tasted like in your mouth. It's about not giving away such intimate moments with someone who doesn't deserve it.
You wait for that special person, not just throw it away. And when you find that special person, you wait some more, just to be sure.
How fucking stupid are people? I mean really. They meet some guy in middle school or high school and think they'll be with them for the rest of their life. Then they fuck them. How fucking stupid are you? Wait. Just wait. And when you're in love and happy and know this is the love of your life, you know what you do? You wait. And when you move in together, you know what you do? You wait.
There's nothing sacred about marriage to me. I don't care if you wait until you're married. But still wait! I mean, once you've been together for years and years, and you know everything about the other person, and you're still positive that you want to spend the rest of your life with them, only then should you do any sexual activities together..
If it were up to me, anyone who doesn't wait would be tortured and killed. Filthy scum.
Why is it so important? Because it is the worst insult you can give your partner. I've never understood why cheating in a relationship is considered so horrible, but having sex with someone else before the relationship is totally fine. It's the exact same thing as cheating! It either signifies that the person doesn't value sex, or that they are a moron, or that they like the other guy just as much or better than you.
Fucking morons. It's not hard. I'm not asking for something impossible. You filthy scum. You all just fall back on the tenant of "everyone makes mistakes" in order to excuse any action you make. Everyone has an excuse, right? No one ever fesses up to their faults and their takes responsibility.
I am so fucking mad right now. You people disgust me. Do you not care? Is that what the problem is? You don't think it's important to only be with the most important person to you? Stupid fucking whores.
You just don't understand how much of an insult it is. A slap in the face. You disgust me, you really do. If you had any kind of dignity left, you'd kill yourselves out of shame. No good, smart man should ever want a used up tissue like you.
PS - Yes, the same goes for men. And I think that men are probably much much worse offenders when it comes to this. However, I'm not attracted to men, so it doesn't hit quite so close to home for me.
PPS - I apologize to any genuine virgins out there, reading this. You all are doing a great job. Keep up the good work! 
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Parthena
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posted on 01-25-2010 at 08:08 |
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LOL
You really have some strong feelings on this. 
I must admit, there are times when I wish all men were born with hymens..... It always seems worse for a woman somehow... And yet, the way you put it makes more sense... What, in the end, IS sex? Some people would even say sex with yourself is sex... It's a tough one...
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lagore
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posted on 01-25-2010 at 09:46 |
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Thanks!
Hehe, yeah. I... I was kinda upset when I wrote this and it ended up sounding kind of... insane. Sorry... >_<;;;
I, um... I guess it's just mainly that I don't see anything more sacred about intercourse compared to other sexual activity (at least in terms of intimacy and closeness, it is "sacred" in the sense that it can produce children  ).
I mean... well, I'm sure you've hear of some men and ladies who will do anything but vaginal penetration and still claim to be virgins, which just kind of confuses me, I guess.
Oh! And thank you for your replies. I appreciate you taking the time.
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Bridget
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posted on 02-06-2010 at 11:32 |
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good reasoning
Im a happy and goodlooking female virgin who never gives it away. But I'm certain that some guys already imagine fucking me when they seduced me. So by ur standard am Istill a real virgin?
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lagore
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posted on 02-06-2010 at 15:46 |
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Bridget:
Well, I assume you are. It depends on what it is that you don't give away.
I think I was a little too confusing in that long, crazy rant I made. What I was trying to say is that was that a lack of vaginal intercourse shouldn't be the only thing that that makes a person a virgin. I mean, I've never understood how a person who's willingly given oral sex, or handjobs, or been fingered can claim to be a virgin. I guess I don't see what makes vaginal intercourse so important, and other sexual activities "not count".
...if that makes any sense.
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Alsark
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posted on 02-10-2010 at 23:12 |
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I totally agree. I'm a male virgin who wants a real virgin. I had a girl going on and on about purity rings the other day and how important it was for her to wait... then she told me about how she's engaged in anal and oral. My emotions were a mixture of, "LOL" and "NOOOO!" at the same time.
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silentscream
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posted on 10-05-2010 at 15:04 |
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beautiful, all of you
I am a 26 year old virgin male and, quite frankly, had I heard you say something of that nature in person, lagore, I even feel that I would be compelled to talk to you.
Genuine. You are just so genuine.
There is so much to a girl that I think I would have to change my pants the first time one is merely laying on the sofa watching tv and waves her finger for me to join her.
I will hun, I have to go, uh, use the bathroom first..
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friend4354
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posted on 10-21-2010 at 07:55 |
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Good posts
It is good to see a little bit of discussion going on here.
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maestroanth
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posted on 12-08-2010 at 01:52 |
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haha lagore your cool :)
haha lagore your cool :)
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melee
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posted on 04-12-2011 at 16:10 |
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A mans look on things
Ok So im a guy or a man whatever you wish to call me and I am also a virgin.
I hear what you are saying about the fine line between what is and is not sex and I have my own views too. Any sexual act with someone is technically sex be it oral, anal, vaginal or even just stimualtion of the sexual organs, let me be more specific stimulation of somone ELSES sexual organs. Masturbation is healthy and important to our development as sexual beings. This may confuse you but, the Lord has created us to be sexual otherwise we would not gain pleasure from sexual acts. We must remember though, that there is a time and place for us to fully realise our sexual desires. It is generally accepted in the church that this time is marriage though other people may have there own values and belief systems on the subject, but lets not argue philosophy.
As far as the hymen goes it takes very little to actually rupture a hymen, have you ridden a horse or even a bycycle ? chances are your hymen is gone. For me one day when i marry and have sex all i want is for a woman to be untouched, by this i mean she ahs not been sexually stimulated or penetrated before her wedding night.
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scotland_the_brave
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posted on 05-29-2011 at 17:51 |
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Yeah
Yeah I get what you mean ppl who say they are a virgin but they have done anal oral what ever are using virginity as a status thing in my opinion.
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WhiteFlower
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posted on 06-28-2011 at 06:09 |
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There is something true and something not that true in what you just pointed out.
Yes, I do agree that people often do not understand what the word virgin actually means. It's more than just having your hymen not touched. It's also being pure, innocent, loyal, true to your partner.
A man can have your virginity, but it's a question if that same guy has your innocence as well. How innocent is a girl who has never had sex in her life, but thinks of other men, watches porno movies, masturbates, etc...? Yes, indeed, she is a "virgin", but not innocent.
I agree virginity is a great gift a girl can give to a guy, but I do not agree it's the "greatest" gift ever. To me, my humble opinion, way more beautiful gift a girl can give to a guy is her innocence. If you never thought of sex before, if you don't exactly know how sex looks like, if your man is the first man who ever made you desire sex, yes, he can be thankful to have a pure girl by his side.
A girl virgin who is "experienced" in a way that she knows a lot, often thinks and gets horny, shouldn't be valued as a pure virgin girl.
However, the matter is I do not agree that you can not "make a mistake". If a girl gave herself to a guy, things didn't work out later, they separated, that does not make her less worth.
Virginity stays only a word if a girl is not loyal and true in a relationship. Every girl should wait until they are sure about guy they want to become intimate with. Feeling of belonging to only one guy is the best feeling ever. Every girl should wait until she finds a guy who she can give not only her virginity, but her soul, heart, emotions, fears, and the most important, her pureness, all in that one night, when she experiences sex for the first time.
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