I'm 19 years old, and I have a problem with sex. I've been with my boyfriend for two years, and he has been really loving, and patient.
Basically I'm a virgin because I wanted to wait for the right person and I feel strongly that my boyfriend is the right person. He makes me feel comfortable around him, we love each other and want to have sex, but when we get close to, I just start crying. I don't know why, but I feel overwhelmed and stressed, we mess around and when he asks about taking it further, I just start feeling nervous and stressed out and I just cry. He says he thinks it's because I'm not comfortable and that's so not true. I just don't know how to relax and realize that I am ready for this but even when I start to decide that I'm going to try, knots just start to form in my stomach.
I'm just looking for anyone that has any advice on how to relax or a possibility of why this could be happening. I'm open to answer any questions if anyone has any to help me.
My suggestion is first decide that this is the right person after that discuss this topic with your boyfriend freely afterwords get close and enjoy your sex life. if yet problem is not solved then consult a sex counselor.
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