20(going to be 21 in a few weeks) male from new york
I'm 20 years old right now, and as you can probably guess am a virgin. For whatever reason women are never interested in me sexually. It's always as a friend or something like that. I'm going to be 21 and I feel like I'm a damn little kid. All my friends have girlfriends and take them with them whenever we hang out. I'm always the third wheel or the fifth and tonight I was the seventh wheel.
I wouldn't necessarily consider myself to be "shy" although I'm sure some people would. I'd say I'm just quiet in general. Honestly I'm not bad looking and a lot of people tell me that. In fact most people assume I've lost my virginity by now.
Tonight I was at the movies with my friends. One of them was sitting with his girlfriend. I looked over and saw them holding hands watching the movie. Then I looked to my right at the empty seat next to me. It really tore me up inside. It's nothing they did wrong, just made me mad at myself. People always envy me because my family has money and that has never been an issue for me. But they don't realize how much I envy what they have. What for some damned reason I can't seem to get.
There have been a few times I was close but those come far and few between. For my 20th birthday I went to a club in the city and danced with this really hot girl who is a friend of my brother's. She was into me, sitting on my lap but didn't want to ruin her friendship with my brother. She texted him and asked if it would be weird if she hooked up with me... he replied with "I don't know maybe"... So yeah nothing happened except she sat on my lap big deal.
I know what you people are going to say. "Oh just hang in there" or "it'll happen someday" and I'm sure there will be some prick on here who will make fun of me. I don't want to hear it. As a matter of fact I don't know what anyone could say that would help me. I really just needed a place to vent my frustrations.
I'm not tired of being a virgin, I'm tired of being single and alone while all my friends are off with their girlfriends and I'm suck with myself.
Let me recommend a singles trip with Foreign Affair. I can guarantee you will not be single after one week. You will meet hundreds of women wanting a relationship in just one week. Plus most of the guys who go on these tours are 35 and up, so you will have a big advantage. Tour start around $1,500.
Take al look at this video. All the women you see were from JUST ONE tour. During the video you can listen to the guys comments. Every guy on the tour said they wish they would have done this when they were in there twenties.
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