I have been a virgin all my life im 21, but a couple of days ago i started feelig strange, i stuck something inside of me to see what it would feel like does that mean im not a virgin anymore?
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Registered: 07-04-2004 Location: Rhode Island, USA
posted on 07-18-2004 at 23:05
I don't think so biddylove. When I think of the word virgin. I think of someone who has never had sex with another person. This does not include oral, I mean intercourse. For you to put something inside of you, lets say a tampon, doesn't mean you lost your virginity. This is just my thought anyway. I hope this helped.
It sounds like your hormones are begining to get the best of you and you want to practice opening yourself up if you decide to allow a man to pleasure you, (Hopefully he will be your husband your first time).
Go to the library and get some books on pleasuring the female.
Remember; nearly 90% of girls who are virgins never orgasm with the boy their first time because the boy prematurely ejaculates within just seconds or a few minutes of entering the virgin girl.
It takes girls time to warm up before they orgasm.
So make sure that your future hubby has read those books that you get from the library about how you would like to be pleasured.
Remember, you are the virgin so that makes it your big night, don't assume your hubby will know how to pleasure you he will only be thinking of himself.
It is up to you to make him consider your pleasure spots.
If every virgin girl got books from the library and showed them to their hubby's on their wedding night the percentage of virgin girls having orgasms their first time would be 100%
Like Janet Jackson says' its the (Pleasure Principle) babygirl.
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Registered: 10-03-2004 Location: Springfield Missouri
posted on 10-03-2004 at 20:20
For once I disagree with old fashioned. ORAL SEX IS DEFINITELY SEX! To deny this would mean that you are niave enough to believe that all lesbians are virgins.
I mean do you really think it makes a difference....If you shove your penis in someones head it's not sex, but if you shove it in their pussy it is? Do you really believe that? You are still getting off inside the other person, just because it's a different hole than the one you reproduce with doesn't stop it from being sex.
Plus you can get all theSEXUALLY Transmitted Diseases through oral. However virginity is something you give away to another person, you can't do it alone.
you need to have punctured your hymen and the only way to find out if you have is to get a check up! besides you are supposed to get a check up two years before becoming sexually active
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