I have been dating a girl for 11 months...her past bf had sex with her...We have not...at all. She wants to soooooo badly...and so do I, but I believe in waiting for many reasons including risk of pregnancy, God, and other typical reasons. We've fooled around, but I hate that...and feel bad at the end...
I supposed I've provoked her to a point where she is now considering breaking up with me if we don't have sex.
Our relationship is very healthy...we have so much love for each other...I never knew someone could love a girl as much as I love her...and her love for me is immeasurable as well.
I am soooo scared and so alone...What should I do? It's all black and white here...Obviously I've here the "she's not worth it if that's all she wants you for." But it's not...she's waited so long and sacrificed so much and just claims she can't take it any more.
Please...I need answers...a friend...an opinion...anything. I am so scared to lose her.
pray for me.
That is great that you found someone who means so much to you as your girlfriend. For your problem I would suggest talking to her openly about it. It will probably be very hard for you to do, but if you have been together for almost a year and she means that much, you need to talk to her. Tell her your reasons for not having sex and discuss this with her. Maybe talk about more serious types of foreplay that would be pleasing and comfortable for the both of you. Check out sexinfo101.com for good information on all aspects of sex, including foreplay. Maybe you are just too nervous right now and use your reasons as an excuse.
If at the end of the day, she still might dump you. Well then, it's your call.....
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