the girl that i am seeing now is still a virgin and well im not. she says that she wants to wait until marriage to lose her virginity and i respect that of her and i want her to wait until marriage, (well she wants to marry me) and i do her to.
but my problem is that she does things to turn me on and she does it very well and i ask her to stop because it puts thoughts and passions for it in my head and it is killing me because i am trying to respect her wishs but i think she is doing it on purpose and what i want to know is how in the hell can i curve the feeling of wanting to have sex with her and what should i tell her.
please help w/ this probleme i am begging
well when she hit on you hit on her back then when she get hard like she makes you yall both are going to be in that mood and before you know it you both have made love!goodluck
I think your best bet would be to tell her how you really feel. If you tell her that you really want to respect her wishes but, she is making it hard for you to do that; I think she'll understand. If that doesn't work it would be good for you to get away from her for a short time (not break up with her, just walk away) find somewhere else to be, give yourself a second to cool off. It will keep you from doing something you might regret in the heat of the moment. If she asks why tell her again, that you're just trying to respect her even if it means putting a little distance bettween you for a while.
if she's that good at 'turning you on', and is doin it deliberately, somehow I REALLY doubt she hasn't done at least SOMETHING with a guy (while not actually sex)
It sounds to me that the best thing for you to do would be to talk to her and let her know what she is doing. She may or may not be doing it on purpose, you never know. If she is not doing it on purpose then she may not even realize what she is doing. Some women just end up doing somethings to make guys turned on and no even know it, more or less like habits. Coming from a womans point of view you would be a lot better off if you just tell her how you feel and definatly let her know that you are trying to respect her wishes however she is making it very hard for you to do. Just be honest!
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